On Tuesday the best man I know will do what he always does on the 21st of
the month.  He'll sit down and pen a love letter to his best girl.  He'll say how
much he misses her and loves her and can't wait to see her again.  Then he'll
fold it once, slide it in a little envelope and walk into his bedroom.  He'll go to
the stack of love letters sitting there on her pillow, untie the yellow ribbon,
place the new one on top and tie the ribbon again.  The stack will be 180
letters high then, because Tuesday is 15 years to the day since Nellie, his
beloved wife of 53 years, died.  In her memory, he sleeps only on his half of
the bed, only on his pillow, only on top of the sheets, never between, with just
the old bedspread they shared to keep him warm.

There's never been a finer man in American sports than John Wooden, or a
finer coach.  He won 10 NCAA basketball championships at UCLA, the last in
1975.  Nobody has ever come within six of him.

He won 88 straight games between January 30, 1971, and January 17, 1974.  
Nobody has come within 42 since.

So, sometimes, when the Basketball Madness gets to be too much -- too
many players trying to make Sports Center, too few players trying to make
assists, too few coaches willing to be mentors, too many freshmen with
out-of-wedlock kids, too few freshmen who will stay in school long enough to
become men -- I like to go see Coach Wooden.
I visit him in his little condo in Encino, 20 minutes northwest of Los Angeles,
and hear him say things like "Gracious sakes alive!" and tell stories about
teaching "Lewis" the hook shot.  Lewis Alcindor, that is... who became Kareem

There has never been another coach like Wooden, quiet as an April snow
and square as a game of checkers; loyal to one woman, one school, one way;
walking around campus in his sensible shoes and Jimmy Stewart morals.

He'd spend a half hour the first day of practice teaching his men how to put
on a sock.  "Wrinkles can lead to blisters," he'd warn.  These huge players
would sneak looks at one another and roll their eyes.  Eventually, they'd do it
right.  "Good," he'd say. "And now for the other foot."

Of the 180 players who played for him, Wooden knows the whereabouts of
172.  Of course, it's not hard when most of them call, checking on his health,
secretly hoping to hear some of his simple life lessons so that they can write
them on the lunch bags of their kids, who will roll their eyes.

"Discipline yourself, and others won't need to," Coach would say.  "Never lie,
never cheat, never steal," and "Earn the right to be proud and confident."

If you played for him, you played by his rules: Never score without
acknowledging a teammate.  One word of profanity, and you're done for the
day.  Treat your opponent with respect.

He believed in hopelessly out-of-date stuff that never did anything but win
championships.  No dribbling behind the back or through the legs.  "There's
no need," he'd say.

No UCLA basketball number was retired under his watch.  "What about the
fellows who wore that number before?  Didn't they contribute to the team?"
he'd say.

No long hair, no facial hair.  "They take too long to dry, and you could catch
cold leaving the gym," he'd say.  That one drove his players bonkers.

One day, All-America center Bill Walton showed up with a full beard.  "It's my
right," he insisted.  Wooden asked if he believed that strongly.  Walton said
he did.

"That's good, Bill," Coach said.  "I admire people who have strong beliefs and
stick by them, I really do.  We're going to miss you."  Walton shaved it right
then and there.  Now Walton calls once a week to tell Coach he loves him.

It's always too soon when you have to leave the condo and go back out into
the real world, where the rules are so much grayer and the teams so much

As Wooden shows you to the door, you take one last look around.  The
framed report cards of his great-grandkids, the boxes of jelly beans peeking
out from under the favorite wooden chair, the dozens of pictures of Nellie.

He's almost 90 now.  You think a little more hunched over than last time.  
Steps a little smaller.  You hope it's not the last time you see him.  He smiles.  
"I'm not afraid to die," he says.  "Death is my only chance to be with her

Problem is, we still need him here.

Author Unknown
Just Call Him "Coach"